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Who Are We?
It's A Police Thing?
Interview with Debra Gainey
By Fallon
Herb of the Month
Silver Spiritwolf
How to Save Mother Earth
David Clark
Little Ditties
Strange & Interesting
Silver Spiritwolf &
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Rainbow Connection
Pagan Gay/Lesbian
Column
Virginia Villarreal
Horoscope
Skye Thomas
Natures' Kitchen
David Clark
Online Pagan Education
Spiritwolf
The Moon in Folklore
Michelle Sinclair
Pagan Parenting Corner
Michelle Sinclair
Poetry
Fallon
Tarot of the Month
Lady Valira
Wicca & Paganism versus Witchcraft
Silver Spiritwolf
Site Critique
Silver Spiritwolf
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Getting Along
By Winterwolf
We often talk about
religious freedom and the right to worship as we please. For a long time,
many pagans were persecuted for simply believing a different way than
mainstream society. Years of being oppressed by a religious group who used
political clout to gain their own agenda had embittered many pagans towards
the mainstream with the Christian church being the primary antagonist.
We all at one time cried out for religious tolerance and peaceful living in
full equality. It seems the religion of our parents was geared to hunt the
pagan down just as Christians were persecuted back in the days of the Roman
Empire. Historically it appears that any society which gains a measure of
freedom from oppression, ends up finding a group to oppress themselves due
to cultural, racial, or spiritual differences. In America, the "Land of the
Free" this is a pattern that the careful observer finds all too often. But
of late, though there are many battles to fight for today's Pagan, equality
is slowly becoming something realized.
Yet as pagans slowly gain freedoms and claim their openness and all that is
rightfully theirs guaranteed in our Nation's Constitution, a
disturbing trend seems on the rise. Hate seems to be
slowly breeding within a spiritual path that is supposedly a path of peace
and love. We preach "Perfect Love and Perfect Trust", yet more
and more I am seeing a trend of distrust and overall jealousy amongst
various people who ascribe to paganism. Indeed, I see outright slander and
misinformation being thrown about all in the name of who is right and who is
wrong. So that brings up the question; who is right? Who is wrong? Recently
I was reading a book with many thoughts in eastern philosophy. The book was
titled "Under the Plum
Tree, The Tao of Everything" written by Chung Fu, edited by Marjorie Giles.
While reading this book, something jumped out at me as a simple part of
living. I will quote it here as certainly the credit
is not mine.
"INFLUENCING OTHERS"
Q: (Part is inaudible) ...philosophy different than mine. What can I say to
them without changing their views? I don't want to change them. Do I just
speak as myself?
A: Speak as yourself. That is the most beautiful. Speak freely and flowingly
of what you believe. Then when someone says, We do not
agree with what you say, answer, that is fine. Do not defend yourself, for
defense of what you are means you do not believe what you are.. Defense
causes war; if you never defend yourself, there
will never be war.
In regards to teaching, talking, express what you are. If someone disagrees,
saying, That is ridiculous, or, What you are saying is
not true, they are saying they want you to be in their reality, not yours.
Don't defend yourself. Know that is their expression. Listen to them, and
then go to the next question. If someone says, What do you think of this?
tell them. But if they try to fight you, ask for another question. It will
not make you weak; it will make you stronger. Peace.
(Chung Fu)
I thought about this for a couple of days. Mulled it over and twisted it
about in my mind. It seemed so simple, yet all of us are guilty of at one
time or another, telling someone else their thoughts or beliefs are all
wrong. My thought here is this. Each human holds a personal and sacred
truth. I think there would be allot less conflicts if everyone simply
followed the above advice. We have
no rights to judge one another for our beliefs or for our thoughts.
This also needs to extend out past our own pagan brothers and sisters and
beyond to other religions. It matters little if we feel personally they are
wrong. Their thoughts are just as valuable and sacred as ours.
Everything
is in layers past one person. The individual has allot of effect on those
around you. But I figure, if
you truly love yourself, and that friends is so very important, then you can
affect positive change around you. Start with yourself. Love
yourself. Truly believe in yourself and in your sacred truth. When you
can do this, take it to the next level, your family. Do unto them as you
would have them do unto you. Treat them and everyone around you with that
same kindness and respect you yourself would ask for. Even if you dislike a
person. Accept them and bear them no ill will. It matters little if they are
wrong, love them as a fellow entity and treat them with kindness. This will
eventually be given back to you as what you affect in the world around you
will ripple back on you. Pass your love that you profess on to those
beyond your friends and family, out to those who hate you, for they need it
the most. Avoid judging those around you. No one is right, no one is wrong.
Each individual is a special creation and has the right to live as best as
they can. I think it is paramount that we all respect each other's sacred
truth. If we expect others to give us religious freedom and respect us for
our spiritual paths, then should we not all agree to respect one another for
the myriad of spiritual paths that we as pagans follow? Does it really
matter by what we call our Gods and Goddesses? Does it really matter if one
is eclectic or one is coven? Does it really matter what lineage holds the
oldest history or original rituals? NO to all of the above. Each person's
path to enlightenment is sacred to them alone. Each path one takes is
designed to be learned from. The bottom line is that we must, as a whole
simply accept one another and stop the defamation of one another. When one
stops fearing the sanctity of their own faith, they will stop worrying about
other people's faith. This is a truth all can embrace. This must also extend
past our own religion. Yes, that means stop the anger towards the
Christian establishment. Embrace the Muslim, the Jewish, the Buddhist.
Embrace and love them all, even...AND ESPECIALLY.....if they turn away. Love
them all anyways. If their truth is not yours, that's ok. But if you truly
embrace your faith, and honestly believe in it, you will not have a need to
defend it. Your actions will show all who is truly right and who is truly
wrong. Try to gently reach out to everyone around you. Talk without anger in
your voice or in your heart. I think we will all go very far if we can
embrace these values.
Now, I am sure there are many who will be angered at my words here. I
am sure more than a few will scoff at my ramblings. A few more will hate me
for what I speak. This is ok. It is their right to do so. I still embrace
all of them. I do my best to love all with equanimity. Do I always succeed?
Absolutely not. But then, that is what life is for, learning. And how can
one learn without making a few mistakes along the way? This month while the
fires of summer are finally cooling down. Stop and think of the world and
its people around you. Each bit of peace and acceptance you give out, is
like a refreshing, thirst quenching drink of cool water.
Till next time, blessings to all your Spirits large and small.
Winterwolf
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But it does me no injury for my neighbor
to say there are twenty gods or no God. It neither picks my pocket nor
breaks my leg.
--Thomas Jefferson, Notes on Virginia, 1782
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